Woman receive disturbing messages after she tries to reschedule date
A Canadian woman has shared a series of disturbing messages sent to her after she tried to reschedule a date.
The pair had met on a dating app and texted for five days before making plans to meet.
It's when the woman attempted to reschedule due to illness that his true colours began to show.
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It's when the woman attempts to reschedule due to illness that his true colours began to show. TikTok
The woman's name is Lyssa and she has shared the text exchange on TikTok @xolyssarosexo as a warning to others.
She posts the first video along with the caption: "PSA…. Be careful of strangers and listen to your gut!!! He was completely normal before this and it gets worse."
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The text exchange begins with Lyssa attempting to reschedule their planned meet up due to illness.
He responds by saying: "Can I please see you tonight. I really like you. This won't get ruined."
He does not respond well from the get go. TikTok
She doesn't respond to this so he then texts: "Don't bail. I really believe we can be something amazing also. And you don't have anything to worry about."
Then the man attempts to convince her to change her mind. TikTok
At this stage Lyssa says: "It has nothing to do with you."
But he still won't take no for an answer, with his messages become increasingly angry and paranoid.
In one he says: "Obviously you don't like me so whatever."
He becomes increasingly paranoid. TikTok
In another he writes: "Alright you know I can't sit here and beg you. I learned awhile back if someone doesn't want you or what [sic] to see you. Then just let them go.
"Never beg for them to want you or to see you," he continues. "Obviously you made your choice and have no interest in seeing how amazing this could be. I'm definitely pretty hurt though."
Before long, the man is ranting, clearly blaming her for the demise of their relationship. TikTok
Following his barrage of messages Lyssa decides to remove herself from the situation for good.
She say: "I'm sorry but this is really just too intense for me, if you had said I understand, what's another good day for you? I probably would."
At this stage Lyssa decides she doesn't want to meet up with the man after all. TikTok
This seems to anger him even more. He says: "So yo lied. You really don't like me and don't see this as being anything obviously."
He becomes angry, accusing her of lying. TikTok
The woman's TikTok followers are shocked at the man's behaviour.
"The 'you need this' is very alarming," one comments.
"Yeeeah dude has a lot of issues he needs to resolve," says another.
"Yea bruh definitely gives off bad vibes," another writes.
Another comments: "Testing how someone reacts to being told no is a very quick way to spot red flags."
"He tried every single manipulative tactic there including intimidation," another writes. "Terrifying and not okay."
"That urgency was a sign," says another. "Glad you didn't go. If he behaved like that through text imagine what he would've done if he seen you."
"What the... that's so scary," adds another.
Lyssa shares a second video which features more disturbing texts from the man sent the following day.
He says: "Tell me why you are doing this to me."
The next day, still rage texting her, he still seems to hold out hope. TikTok
She answers: "Because all I said was I didn't feel like going out yesterday and you won't stop texting."
"This was a game," he says. "Like I really fell for you then this."
She responds: "How? We only texted for 5 days and never met." She adds: "Just please stop texting me, those qualities aren't what I'm looking for."
Still, he continues.
"What qualities?" he asks.
She say: "Stop texting me." She adds: "It's been 5 days, this is insane."
At one point he says: "So no date?"
He also taunts her by asking why she hasn't blocked his number. When she answers it is for proof of his harassment he tries to defend his behaviour.
She ends by accusing him of harrassment. TikTok
"Just a reminder," he says. "You know nothing about me. Not where I live. Not my last name. Nothing. And you made me fall for you for 5 days. You led me on."
At this point one of Lyssa's TikTok followers simply says: "If you ever go to that dudes house you ain't coming back out alive, 100% he'll turn you into a lampshade."
