Gift ideas for couples together so long they don't know what to buy

If you're in a long-term relationship, you might be starting to struggle with gift ideas for each other. It's difficult to be original across birthdays, anniversaries, and Christmas. And with Valentine's Day not far away, you need to think of something to gift them.

Luckily, we've got some ideas you might not have thought of to keep in mind as the years go by.

If you've been together for a long time, it's easy to forget to prioritise making time for each other (especially if you have kids). While some of these ideas are practical products, a lot of these ideas involve doing things together – activities to make you chat, engage, explore and spend a bit of time connecting.

NOTE: Prices are accurate at time of publishing.

For the home

If you like to veg out at home together, these are the best gifts to consider.

Emma Sleep Emma Foam Pillow

Get it for $199

Give them the gift of a good night's rest with a pillow that's designed for ultimate comfort. The a pillow is customisable, with removable layers and adjustable firmness. Perfect for the fussy sleeper, they can change it up to find what suits them best.

Comfy pyjamas from Boody

Boody's range of bamboo viscose clothing and underwear offers premium comfort and softness against the skin. While it's a practical gift, pyjamas are always appreciated by women and are something men often don't think to buy. These are our top picks from the silky smooth range:

Men's Sleep Shorts, $49.95

Goodnight Sleep Cami, $41.95

Dreame D9 Max Gen 2 Robot Vacuum and Mop Cleaner

Was $699, now $399

It could feel a little charged to gift a vacuum for Valentine's Day, but this one is going to take care of the chore for you and your partner, making it worth it – consider it a gift for you both! The Dreame D9 Max Gen 2 Robot Vacuum and Mop Cleaner has efficient home mapping, a long battery life (285 minutes), and the ability to return to the charging dock when necessary, this Dreame D9 Max Gen 2 Robot Vacuum and Mop Cleaner will change your lives.

Save $300 when you buy this one now.

Sheet Society Leo Washed Cotton Quilt Cover

Available from $140

Agreeing on bedding can be challenging, but Sheet Society makes the loveliest sheets and doona covers. With a broad range of colours, you can mix and match so that everyone is appeased.

Eva Everyday Sofa

Here from $1950

A couch? From the internet? We know what you're thinking, but hear us out. A new couch could be a great investment to make as a couple, refreshing your living space with something expensive but also long-lasting, like your love (?). We reviewed the Eva Everyday Couch here, so have a read and learn about its many great features (a rearrangeable chaise? We love it!) before you invest.

A romantic getaway

Quality time can be tough to schedule among your day-to-day, so why not look ahead to a trip you can book now?

Flights with Hawaiian Airlines

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Hawaii is a great holiday spot for Aussies. It's a shorter flight than mainland USA or Europe, and you can find excellent deals with Hawaiian Airlines. And with no fees for changing flights, you can be flexible with your travel dates.

RedBalloon Hot Air Balloon With Breakfast

$698 on RedBalloon

If you're better suited to staying local, this experience will get you out of the every day and allow you to appreciate the small things – from a hot air balloon. You and your partner can enjoy a one-hour hot air balloon over the Hunter Valley, an a la carte breakfast and a glass of sparkling wine at Peterson House.

His and hers

A reusable coffee mug is an ideal gift for couples who love their coffee. So, why not get a matching set? Frank Green is beloved for their triple-wall vacuum-insulated reusable coffee mug that'll keep your drinks hot for longer. They're also spill and leak-resistant, perfect for travel and commuting.

If coffee isn't your thing, you can also grab his and hers Frank Green Iconic Duo water bottles, which hold a litre of water.

Frank Green Iconic Duo Gift Set

$89.95 for the set

Frank Green Iconic Duo Gift Set – Water Bottles

Get the set for $109.95

Samsung Galaxy Ring

Get it in blackGet it in goldGet it in silver

The couple who works out together stays together, and with the Samsung Galaxy Ring, you can work out like never before. Using Galaxy AI, you can get readings on your energy, wellness habits, sleep quality, and heart rate. Featuring a durable, water-resistant design, you can Samsung Galaxy Ring or something a bit different to the classic wedding band.

Matching fragrance

who is elijah HIS|HER EDP 50mL

$179 for 100ml

A fragrance you can both enjoy? We love it! Perfume brand who is elijah has perfected the unisex perfume with their who is elijah, which has various notes of bergamot, violet leaf, cardamom, fir needle, sandalwood, and amber – things that smell great on men and women.

Memory making

Making and capturing memories is an important aspect of quality time spent together, and these products will make it all the more fun.

Polaroid Red Stripe 600 Refurb Instant Camera

Buy it here for $264.95

A vintage camera that's been refurbished for a new generation of capturing memories, this Polaroid is pretty unique. Gift it to a partner who loves photography, or is always forcing the family into photos together.

Polaroid Large Photo Album

Get it now for $33.96

Designed to fit prints from Polaroid i-Type, 600 and SX-70 cameras, this album has 160 spots for all your favourite Polaroid pictures.

Fujifilm Instax Mini Link3 Smartphone Printer

$161 on Amazon$179 on CameraPro

If you're not keen to tote around a large Polaroid camera, the Instax Mini Link3 is your best option. Print photos straight from your phone via Bluetooth for instant reminders of your best memories.

Quality time together

These gifts are perfect for couples who love to try new things, chat and reminisce. If you have to stay put for Valentine's Day, you can do these things together at home on the day or in the future.

Scratch The World Travel Map

$38.99 here

Perfect for the couple who loves to travel, you can mark your various adventures to different countries by scratching them off on this extensive map. It'll also spark conversation on where to go next.

We're Not Really Strangers Couples Edition Card Deck

Get the deck for $49.40

These card games have taken off in recent years, providing talking prompts for friends, couples and individuals alike so we can all get to know each other a little better. Including questions like 'What do we have in this relationship that you never thought was possible?' and 'What do you think my perfect date night would be', they're a way to fast-track deeper understanding of your partner. Answer a few each date night to facilitate a conversation that's not just about the dog, the kids, or the after-school sports drop-off routine.

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