The common pet owner 'accident' that's making your dog more clingy

Are you the proud owner of a "velcro dog" – one of those canines who seem to be glued to your side no matter where you go in the house? 

While it can be enjoyable to be the centre of their universe and comforting at times, there are usually moments when their unwavering devotion can feel overwhelming – especially when they accompany you to the most private spaces, the bathroom!

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What makes a dog clingy?

There are many reasons why a dog may want to be with you constantly.

Breeds

Some breeds are well known for their predisposition to being a 'velcro dog'.

Learnt behaviour

Owners often accidentally reinforce this behaviour by allowing a puppy to follow them from room to room or carrying them around. 

As adults, we enjoy feeling needed and usually shower dogs with attention and reassurance (and often treats) when they come to us. This encourages them to keep doing it.

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Boredom

They might just be looking for something to do. They may need more exercise and mental stimulation.

They are scared

Certain noises, such as thunderstorms and fireworks, are terrifying to some dogs, and they may follow you around to seek reassurance and comfort.

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Separation anxiety

It's essential to distinguish between a dog that enjoys your company and one that experiences anxiety in your absence. Dogs with separation anxiety often exhibit significant distress when separated from their owners, impacting their well-being both emotionally and physically. 

These dogs will commonly get distressed before the owner leaves and bark, howl or be destructive while the owners are gone. It is best to seek professional help from a trainer or behaviourist.

Tip to help give you a little space from your pooch

Keep them occupied: Provide your dog enrichment toys, such as chew toys or puzzle feeders, to keep them entertained. Rotate these regularly. Frozen chew toys last longer; I stuff mine with food and place them in the freezer overnight.

Work on teaching them to 'stay' and to 'go to their bed': this will allow you to ask your dog to stay in a particular place, or on their bed. Be sure to reward with treats and praise while you're teaching this.

Use baby gates: These can give you space while allowing your dog to see you. Start with small amounts of separation time and provide them with something to help keep them occupied like their favourite chew toy.

Fuss- free exits and entries: Don't make a huge fuss when you leave or come home to prevent reinforcing excitement or anxiety.

Play and training sessions: Dedicate some one-on-one time to playtime and training each day. Finish on a happy note, take a toilet break, and then ask them to lie on their bed.

Crate training: Crate training a puppy will help them learn to be comfortable spending time on their own.