Should you check your partner’s emails or phone?

Oh, come on we’ve all done it, haven’t we?

Your partner’s phone is casually lying on the kitchen bench taunting you as he’s singing in the shower.  Just a casual look to skim his emails of scroll through his messages.

No big deal, right?  

Well apparently, it’s a huge deal.

One of my male friends say if his wife checked his phone it would grounds for divorce.

He sees it as a massive invasion of trust. And if you don’t have trust you don’t have anything.

Yikes!

I honestly did think it was that big a deal. I figured if you did have trust there wouldn’t be anything untoward to find on the phone so no harm no foul.

I’ve checked my husband’s phone, not to see if he’s cheating but rather to see what nice things he says about me to his friends.  Only to find out he hardly talks about me at all. Now that was disappointing.

So, I put it to the 9Honey superstars in this video. Boy did it ruffle a few feathers.