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Man mocked for proposing at KFC finds massive support online

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South African couple Hector Mkansi and Nonhlanhla Soldaat had their dream wedding on December 31, after a video of their proposal went viral in November.

Mkansi, 37, proposed to Soldaat, 28, midway through their meal at a KFC restaurant in South Africa.

Since the video was posted by a Twitter user in November, it has been shared more than 25,000 times using the hashtag #KFCProposal.

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Hector Mkansi and Nonhlanhla Soldaat had their dream wedding after his proposal went viral. CNN

Strangers and brands from across the country were so moved by the proposal that they identified the couple and offered to help plan the big day.

KFC South Africa provided a wedding planner, and Uber and Audi offered to help the couple get around on their honeymoon.

The proposal

Mkansi and Soldaat met at a funeral in 2010 and have been inseparable since then.

They tied the knot in a small ceremony in 2012, but Mkansi, who is a pastor, says it was not the wedding of their dreams.

"In 2011 our families began lobola negotiations (dowry) and in 2012 we got married in a small traditional ceremony as that was all we could afford at the time," Mkansi told CNN.

"We had the ceremony but I knew this wasn't what my wife and I wanted."

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Mkansi got down on one knee at KFC to propose a second time. Twitter

He said he was not happy with the rings he got his wife at the time, so he decided to buy her new ones and surprise her with a better proposal in her favourite place to eat - KFC.

"The team at the restaurant was surprised at the request but they were helpful in creating the big moment," he said.

"We received our meals and when she looked inside, she found the rings and that's when I went down on my knee."

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Unknown to them, someone caught the special moment on camera and posted it online.

Not everyone on social media was supportive at first. One woman mocked Mkansi for popping the question at a fast food restaurant, writing that South African men "are so broke" they propose at KFC.

But the positive responses that followed drowned out the bad comments.

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"We didn't even know about it [negative comments] until much later, we are not really bothered by that," Mkansi said.

"We're still in disbelief"

KFC South Africa later announced on Twitter that it was helping the couple with wedding planning, and even hired an event planner to manage activities around the ceremony.

"South Africa, you guys are amazing! We've found the beautiful couple, and looks like we're having a #StreetwiseWedding y'all. We're meeting Bhut' Hector and his lovely bride Nonhlanhla we'll keep you posted. #KFCProposal," they tweeted.

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Soon after, brands like Audi and Lexus offered to help the couple with travel. Airlines Kulula and Mango also pledged to fly the couple to their honeymoon destination.

The couple were thrilled with the positive response to their viral moment. CNN

South Africans later jumped in with offers to help pay for the couple's wedding jewellery, spa treatment, and home furniture.

Mkansi says he had a small event in mind for the second time around to match his budget. But now, he and his wife cannot believe their luck.

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"We are still in disbelief, both of us have to ask each other if this is really happening from time to time. We couldn't be more grateful to God and every single person that has shared in our little love story," he told CNN.

"Our dream has come true, we never in a million years thought something like this would happen to us."

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